TW Cissexism
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So I’m feeling particularly dysphoric today. It’s Christmas Eve, of course, and I have to spend tomorrow with my entire family. Only my sister knows I’m really a woman and I am going to have to sit with my cis scum/radscum family and wear boys clothes and pretend I am a boy. My grandmother will give me boxer short like she does every year, and she’ll say, “I hope they fit you now, son!” I don’t know what’s worse, her misgendering me or her assumption that because I was born a boy, I must want to wear man’s underwear! It literally tears me apart when she says that. I just want to throw the boxers in her face and scream, “HOW CAN YOU NOT KNOW I’M A GIRL, YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE???” At least I will be wearing my panties underneath my jeans. They will bring me some comfort.
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You're right. I talk all the time about how often cis women rape cis men, so it's doubly offensive coming from me. I sincerely apologize.
thank you. it is perfectly legitimate for trans women especially to be afraid of cis women, particularly cis lesbians.
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Since when do cis women rape trans* people?
omg I know so fucking many trans women and men who have been raped by cis lesbians. fuck you for invalidating them.
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Do you really even actually know what the fuck Dyke means.
Anonymous
Uhhh dyke is someone who identifies as a dyke. Fuck you.
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I am a transgender man and both my father and step mother are cisgender, my father bought me my first binder and is supporting me in my transition completely. He is not trans-phobic, homophobic or any other kind of fucking phobic, he is a loving and supportive father who thinks that everyone should live the way that they want to live. Please do not group all cis people together, you might have had problems with some cisgendered people, but that does not mean all of them are bad. Anonymous
I bet you think reverse racism exists too.
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I'm physically female and identify as female. If we were in a room together would you hate me for just being me? I wouldn't hate you for who you are. Anonymous
I would be fucking afraid of you. People like you rape people like me.
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Will you go out with me? Anonymous
Sure!
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You honestly make me sick to my stomach. Referring to every single person who identifies as their binary sex as "cis scum" just shows how childish and immature you are. I would never, EVER attack a trans, etc. person just because they were trans, etc. Does that make me scum? I have a problem with you, but it's not because you're trans, etc. Does that make me scum? Yes, cis gendered peopled DO attack trans people. But not all of us do. So sit down, because you're making a fool of yourself.
Oh look, more cis scum.
Why don’t you just shut the fuck up? You just did attack a trans* person by coming to their blog and saying “you make me sick to my stomach”
Sit the fuck down.
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Hi. My name is Andrew, I'm 19, and I am a transgender. I am not offended in the least bit by the bathroom signs. I would really like to know why you are. Anonymous
If you were actually transgender, I highly doubt you would dehumanize yourself by identifying as ‘a’ transgender. Nice try, cis scum.
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Hi, when it comes to gender terminology I'd consider myself to be pretty ignorant and I don't want to offend anyone when the subject comes up. Can you explain to me what is and what is not politically correct/offensive? Anonymous
I’m not here to educate you, bro. Many of my wonderful trans* and genderqueer brothers and sisters and others are willing to do that though, so I suggest you educate yourself.
